Happy Tears Vs Sad Tears - Dont hold ur tears....

"There was a study done where a control group of 100 people were divided into two."

50 people watched a very funny, tears-of laughter type movie. 50 watched a very sad and tears of compassion/tragedy type movie.

At the end of the sessions researchers collected the "happy tears" and the sad tears" with eye droppers.

They found that "happy tears" are made up of brine... salt water and not a great deal else

However the "sad tears" were found to contain the very same chemicals and enzymes that are found in tumors, ulcers and other such lumps and bumps and sicknesses through out the body.

This test concluded that the body, when crying in sadness etc is literally flushing out all of the toxic-chemicals that accumulate and are a part of the sadness /heartache experience.

Therefore if one holds back those tears, those toxic-waters will find somewhere else to deposit themselves.. . and prolonged lack-of-crying- release will guarantee that the body will accumulate a huge amount of internal pollution and toxicity that should have been released through
the tears.. is it any wonder that the eyes sting so much when we hold
back our tears?


NO WONDER MEN DIE EARLIER THAN WOMEN.

MEN HOLD ON TO THEIR PRIDE WHICH LEADs THEM TO EARLY DEATH!!!!

LESSON FROM THE STUDY:

CRY YOUR HEART OUT WHEN YOU ARE SAD, LONELY , ALONE, DEPRESSED,
ETC..... IT IS GOOD FOR YOUR HEALTH!

Women in your life..........

This article i found on the net...which i feel will surely appeal to those who think a little deep...do consider it as a thumb rule in ur life

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry with these facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;

Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your sister haven't,
as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no
special concession to girls for their culinary achievements ;

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life ;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home,
your family, your ways and even your family name;

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you
sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen ;

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to;
and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her;
and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding,
or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those,
who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners
 to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't,
simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise ;

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life
 a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house -
your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this...

Useful information about CANCER

Useful Information on one of the deadliest diseases of our time: CANCER 




1. Every person has cancer cells in the body. These cancer cells do
not show up in the standard tests until they have multiplied to a few
billion. When doctors tell cancer patients that there are no more
cancer cells in their bodies after treatment, it just means the tests
are unable to detect 

the cancer cells because they have not reached the detectable size. 


2. Cancer cells occur between 6 to more than 10 times in a person's lifetime. 




3. When the person's immune system is strong the cancer cells will
be destroyed and prevented from multiplying and forming tumors. 




4. When a person has cancer it indicates the person has multiple

nutritional deficiencies. These could be due to genetic, environmental,
food and lifestyle factors. 


5. To overcome the multiple nutritional deficiencies, changing diet
and including supplements will strengthen the immune system. 




6. Chemotherapy involves poisoning the rapidly-growing cancer cells
and also destroys rapidly-growing healthy cells in the bone marrow,
gastro-intestinal tract etc, and can cause organ damage, like liver,
kidneys, heart, lungs etc. 




7. Radiation while destroying cancer cells also burns, scars and damages healthy cells, tissues and organs. 




8. Initial treatment with chemotherapy and radiation will often
reduce tumor size. However prolonged use of chemotherapy and radiation
do not result in more tumor destruction. 




9. When the body has too much toxic burden from chemotherapy and
radiation the immune system is either compromised or destroyed, hence
the person can succumb to various kinds of infections and
complications. 




10. Chemotherapy and radiation can cause cancer cells to mutate and
become resistant and difficult to destroy. Surgery can also cause
cancer cells to spread to other sites. 




11. An effective way to battle cancer is to starve the cancer cells by not feeding it with the foods it needs to multiply. 




CANCER CELLS FEED ON: 




a. Sugar is a cancer-feeder. By cutting off sugar it cuts off one
important food supply to the cancer cells. Sugar substitutes like
NutraSweet, Equal, Spoonful, etc are made with Aspartame and it is
harmful. A better natural substitute would be Manuka honey or molasses
but only in very small amounts. Table salt has a chemical added to make
it white in colour. Better alternative is Bragg's aminos or sea salt. 




b. Milk causes the body to produce mucus, especially in the

gastro-intestinal
tract. Cancer feeds on mucus. By cutting off milk and substituting with
unsweetened soya milk cancer cells are being starved. 

c. Cancer cells thrive in an acid environment. A meat-based diet is
acidic and it is best to eat fish, and a little chicken rather than
beefor pork. Meat also contains livestock antibiotics, growth hormones
and parasites, which are all harmful, especially to people with cancer.





d. A diet made of 80% fresh vegetables and juice, whole grains,

seeds,
nuts and a little fruits help put the body into an alkaline
environment. About 20% can be from cooked food including beans. Fresh
vegetable juices provide live enzymes that are easily absorbed and
reach down to cellular levels within 15 minutes to nourish and enhance
growth of healthy cells. To obtain live enzymes for building healthy
cells try and drink fresh vegetable juice (most vegetables including
bean sprouts)and eat some raw vegetables 2 or 3 times a day. Enzymes
are destroyed at temperatures of 104 degrees F (40 degrees C). 

e. Avoid coffee, tea, and chocolate, which have high caffeine. Green
tea is a better alternative and has cancer-fighting properties.
Water-best to drink purified water, or filtered, to avoid known toxins
and heavy metals in tap water. Distilled water is acidic, avoid it. 




12. Meat protein is difficult to digest and requires a lot of
digestive enzymes. Undigested meat remaining in the intestines become
putrefied and leads to more toxic buildup. 




13. Cancer cell walls have a tough protein covering. By refraining
from or eating less meat it frees more enzymes to attack the protein
walls of cancer cells and allows the body's killer cells to destroy the
cancer cells. 




14. Some supplements build up the immune system (IP6, Flor-ssence,
Essiac, anti-oxidants, vitamins, minerals, EFAs etc.) to enable the
body's own killer cells to destroy cancer cells. Other supplements like
vitamin E are known to cause apoptosis, or programmed cell death, the
body's normal method of disposing of damaged, unwanted, or unneeded
cells. 




15. Cancer is a disease of the mind, body, and spirit. A proactive
and positive spirit will help the cancer warrior be a survivor. Anger,
unforgiveness and bitterness put the body into a stressful and acidic
environment. Learn to have a loving and forgiving spirit. Learn to
relax and enjoy life. 




16. Cancer cells cannot thrive in an oxygenated environment.
Exercising daily and deep breathing help to get more oxygen down to the
cellular level. Oxygen therapy is another means employed to destroy
cancer cells.

When a lizard can..... why can't we????

In order to renovate the house, someone in Japan breaks open the wall. 

Japanese houses normally have a hollow space between the wooden walls. When tearing down the walls, he found that there was a lizard stuck there because a nail from outside hammered into one of its feet. He sees this, feels pity, and at the same time curious, as when he checked the nail, it was nailed 10 years ago when the house was! first built. 

What happened? 

The lizard has survived in such position for 10 years! In a dark wall partition for 10 years without moving, it is impossible and mind-boggling. Then he wondered how this lizard survived for 10 years! without moving a single step--since its foot was nailed! 

So he stopped his work and observed the lizard, what it has been doing, and what and how it has been eating. Later, not knowing from where it came, appears another lizard, with food in its mouth. Ah! He was stunned and touched deeply. For the lizard that was stuck by nail, another lizard has been feeding it for the past 10 years... 

Imagine? it has been doing that untiringly for 10 long years, without giving up hope on its partner. 

Think, will u do that to your partner? 

Think that will you do it to your Mom, 

Who brought you after a big struggle of Nine long months ? 

Or at least to your Dad, Friends, Co-workers, brothers and Sisters? 

Imagine what a small creature can do that a creature blessed with a brilliant mind can't. 

As information and communication technology advances, our access to information becomes faster and faster. But the distance between human beings . . . is it getting closer as well? 

...Please never abandon your loved ones.

My land....your land

Today as i was surfing the TV(which i rarely do) one particular documentary caught my fancy.It was of course a Discovery show called ATLAS regarding some Australian tribe who were searching for their roots. It forced me to give a thought about my perspective for my roots. All these years we have taken this for granted and may be in our whole life would never care for that too. All the values which we conciously or unconciously follow....which we believe separates us from the rest of the world....which becomes our identity in a foreign land...that invisible thread which breathes with us, if we could get a feel of it then why can't us make a celebration of that consciously....Celebration mentioned here is not the one which appears in the regular festivities, its something which we owe to this soil...to our forefathers who breathed in the same air.....who  built this magnificient niche for us brick by brick....it would be nice idea to see that like a reel moving backwards......If we haven't given it thought then the time is not over yet....Bcoz we never know when the thread of life gets  snapped..

Kya yahi hai duniya ....

13 Feb, 2008 was a big day for me and for 44 others bcoz...arey yaar INFOSYS me placement jo ho gai...jo sapna ho aur pura ho jaye to pair zameen par kahan padte hai...same with me...main bhi hawa me tha...(shayad abhi bhi)...mujhe laga jaise sab kuch achanak hi badal gaya hai...that means...mere badlane se pehle ye duniya hi badal gayi...abhi to Family ke saath share bhi nahi kiya....ke log aane bhi shuru ho gae...aisa nahi ke khushi nahi but one can easily identify the false faces...FAKE SMILES...jaise placement nahi murder kar diya ho... Pta nahi sach hai ya juth bt khushi ke saath kuch aur bhi aata hai....anyone who have d same feeling plz share...coz i might be wrong tooo...